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Harrison Ford is more than 20 years older than Calista Flockhart whom he reportedly proposed to last year. STORY HIGHLIGHTS. Women dating older men may want to check out these rules Beware of pop culture references that highlight age differences Don't act the role of a child or try to put him into role of your daddy Be yourself -- older men have less patience for games.

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RELATED TOPICS. (The Frisky) -- Yes
there will always be something slightly appealing about young
wide-eyed struggling artists and beer pong-loving frat boys with hearts of gold. But sometimes you want someone a little more settled and refined -- someone who prefers a suit to a backwards hat and The New York Times to Maxim. Whether you have already snagged yourself a silver fox
or you are on the hunt for one
there are a couple of things you'll need to take into consideration. Like all relationships
this could be long or short-term
but it is always nice to know how to act or behave when dealing with the majestic creature known as the older man. Beware of pop culture references. Yes
you may be tempted to tell your older man the story of how when "Annie" came out
you were 5 and wore a red wig for an entire year. Only
when "Annie" came out
he was graduating from college. See the problem? Referencing movies
TV shows
and fads of yore only highlights your age difference. So focus on things in the here and now
which you are both experiencing as adults. Do not take on the role of the kid. He may be older
but this man is not your father -- it is not his job to take care of you. He should not be a substitute for any male adult figure that you are lacking in your life. If you are craving or missing that bond
make a session with a therapist. There is a good chance that your older man might have kids already
so don't be more needy than his 10-year-old. The same goes for him -- if he is trying to keep you in some creepy child-like state
ditch him. You've come so far as a woman
do you really want to be bossed and controlled like a toddler? Make sure what he's looking for lines up with what you want. Some older men date younger on occasion
when they meet a woman they find irresistible. Some do it all the time. If he's 45 and only dates girls under 25
that should be a red flag if you want something long term. After all
why hang around if he is only going to turn you in for a newer model? And conversely
what if he's ready for kids now and you don't see that happening until years down the road? Find out what he wants from the beginning. Is he looking for wedding bells or arm candy? It never hurts to ask -- that way you can make the decision to stick around. Be yourself. Yes
this is a tired and clichГ© phrase
but it's also true. It goes for all relationships
but especially with an older man. See
older fellows are far less prone to playing games than their younger counterparts. They usually know who they are and what they want. They want to see the same in you. Know that you are beautiful
smart and amazing. Stand up tall and be the woman that made him take a second glance. Be yourself
just a slightly more mature version. Hopefully
acting like you involves some sort of grown-up behavior. You shouldn't expect him to do shots with you on a Wednesday until 2 a.m. -- you have other friends on call for that. Here is where things get complicated. Some of the life experiences that you want
he has already had.













rules for dating an older man