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Article about single people in the us:
What Is a Career Take our Procrastination Test Find a career counselor near me. “Rising share of U.S. adults are living without a spouse or partner
” declared a report released by the Pew Research Center.
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The report also documents ways in which single men are falling behind partnered men economically. The report has unleashed a torrent of singlism (the stereotyping and stigmatizing of single people) and matrimania (the glorifying of marriage and coupling). At PBS
for example
declarations that single people were “failing in life” or showing “arrested development” were tossed about. At Time magazine
unnamed sociologists were said to believe that “having a partner suggests having a future.” I have been devoting the past several decades of my life to pushing back against such disparaging narratives of single life. In their place
I have been providing a more affirming account of what it means to be single
one that is grounded in research
not prejudice. Half of Unpartnered Americans Are Not Interested in Finding a Partner. Discussions of the Pew Report often obsess about romantic prospects. If men are falling behind economically
will women still want to marry them? Don’t they want men who are at least in the same league as them? And if the women don’t find suitable men
horrors! They may end up staying single. Last year
Pew published a report about the romantic interests of single people—those who were not married
not living with a romantic partner
and not in a committed romantic relationship. Based on a national
random sampling of Americans 18 and older
they found that 50 percent of those single people are not interested in a committed romantic relationship
and they are not even interested in a date. All that hand-wringing about marriageability is of little relevance to people who just aren’t interested in marrying or even dating. For Many
Single Life Is a Great Life
Better Than Any Alternative. People who fearmonger about the growing number of single people have an old-fashioned view of single life as a sad fate that some people are stuck with. It is true that some single people long to be coupled
but as I just showed
not nearly as many as our prevailing narratives would suggest. For people who are “single at heart
” single life is their best life—it is more joyful
fulfilling
and meaningful than any alternative. For them
and even for some who love living single but are still open to coupling
single life offers profound rewards
as I described in a recent “Living Single” post. Discussions of the Declining Economic Fortunes of Single Men Have Missed Some Important Points. Of course
the declining economic fortunes of single people is a bad thing. Single men
especially
have fallen behind partnered men in their rates of employment and in the amount that they are paid. Those findings set off a spate of predictable proclamations about the supposed superiority of married men as workers. I looked into that for Singled Out and found research showing that married men tend to put more time into the kind of work that pays off—for them. They tend to work more hours than single men. But if they divorce and then remarry
they work fewer hours than they did when they were divorced. Single men tend to put more hours into the kinds of work that has the potential to benefit many other people besides themselves. For example
they give more of their time to farm organizations
unions
and professional societies. What Is a Career Take our Procrastination Test Find a career counselor near me. More recent research
published in 2020
shows that the lower rates of employment and the lesser pay of single men is likely attributable at least in part to discrimination against them
rather than any greater deservingness of married men. In a study in which the single and married men had identical credentials and characteristics
employers wanted to interview more of the married men
and they wanted to pay them more
too. It is also possible that one of the reasons married men work more hours (when they do) is that employers are giving them more hours when single men wanted more hours
too. Discussions of the Living Arrangements of Single People Have Missed Some Important Points. Among the evidence assembled for the supposedly worsening fates of single men is that more unpartnered men than partnered men are living with their parents. For single men who are living with their parents and wish they weren’t
that is a bad thing. It is wrong
though
to shame anyone for living with their parents. Today’s young adults and their parents often genuinely enjoy each other’s company. It’s not the 1970s anymore. And for some groups and in some places
living with parents is highly valued. Discussions of the growing numbers of single men living with their parents start from the assumption that the parents are supporting their grown children. And sometimes they are. It is also true
though
that single people—including single men—are more likely than married people to provide care when their aging parents need it. That’s true of Black sons and daughters as well as White ones. Some single women who are living with their parents are mothers. Overall
their kids are doing remarkably well. A study of more than 11
000 teenagers from 10 different kinds of households showed that the teens living with their single mother and at least one grandparent did at least as well as the teens of married parents in graduating from high school
enrolling in college
not smoking
and not drinking. If their moms had always been single
they tended to do even better than the teens with married parents. People who are single are not just more likely to live with their parents
they are also more likely than partnered people to live alone. As I explained here previously
people who live alone can have special strengths that are rarely recognized. For single men especially
who are living alone longer than the men of previous generations
that experience can be transformational
offering significant payoffs for them later in life. The Power of Single People Is Growing. In celebration of Singles Week in 2019
I documented the growing power of single people
in 10 important trends. That rising clout begins with their growing numbers and continues with the ways in which single people
and the important people in their lives
are commanding more positive attention and more respect.
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