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Samira Mehta receives funding from the Henry Luce Foundation. Partners. University of Colorado provides funding as a member of The Conversation US.
Languages. Twenty years ago
the television show “The O.C.” invented the word “Chrismukkah.” Main character Seth Cohen
played by Adam Brody
described his interfaith family’s December tradition of “eight days of presents followed by one day of lots of presents.” Today Brody is back
starring in a new Netflix show. But this time
instead of playing the child of an interfaith marriage
he is a rabbi dating a woman “without a Jewish bone in her body” – one who
at times
seems unfamiliar with the basics of American Jewish culture. “Nobody Wants This” is the story of a romance between Rabbi Noah and Joanne
played by Kristen Bell: a blond
non-Jewish woman who hosts a podcast about her dating disasters. The show uses the word “shiksa” to describe Joanne
which means a non-Jewish woman. Many consider it so rude
though
that I feel certain that my mother will materialize in my apartment to wash my mouth out with soap for even typing it. Joanne and Noah meet at a party
where he flirts with her. Quickly
they agree that the religious gulf between them means that they cannot date. But of course
they do. In 2024
the largest Jewish movement in the United States
Reform Judaism
decided to allow students with non-Jewish partners into rabbinical school – as do several smaller liberal Jewish movements
including Renewal
secular humanists and Reconstructionists. Conservative and Orthodox rabbis are not permitted to marry a non-Jewish spouse
and as recently as 2023
the Conservative movement reiterated that its rabbis cannot perform interfaith marriages. While some rabbis have only recently been able to have a non-Jewish partner
the basic plot of Jewish men dating and marrying non-Jewish women has been a trope of stage and screen for 100 years. As a scholar of American Judaism
I write about these depictions of interfaith couples in my book “Beyond Chrismukkah: The Christian-Jewish Interfaith Family in the United States.” Becoming ‘real’ Americans. In 1922
“Abie’s Irish Rose” premiered on Broadway
where it was a commercial hit for five years. The comedy features a romance between Abie
an American Jewish soldier
and Rose
his Irish American nurse during World War I. Rose and Abie’s courtship is beset with disapproval from their fathers
who are portrayed as symbols of the old world
dangerously concerned with preserving their outdated worldviews. Meanwhile
the young couple’s love underscores their willingness to move past their identities as Catholic and Jew – both of which were considered “outsider” religions in the 1920s – to become “real” Americans. The rabbi and priest who attend their wedding are veterans
too
deepening the play’s message that patriotism comes first. Abie and Rose’s marriage is presented as an idealized
romanticized version of the American melting pot. ‘Abie’s Irish Rose’ depicts the happy couple as a symbol of America. University of Washington via Wikimedia Commons. The play was just as successful on tour as it was on Broadway
though many critics loathed it. It was revived on Broadway twice and made into two films. Multiple knockoffs were made
including a movie called “The Cohens and the Kellys.” In the 1940s
“Abie’s Irish Rose” became a radio spinoff
but times had changed. The over-the-top ethnic caricatures were no longer considered acceptable
and after a few seasons
the show was canceled. ‘Bridget Loves Bernie’ In the early 1970s
CBS created a sitcom based on the premise of a Jewish man – in this case
a cabbie whose parents own a New York deli – falling in love with a Catholic teacher who comes from a wealthy family. As in “Abie’s Irish Rose
” the younger generation in “Bridget Loves Bernie” supports the marriage
including the bride’s brother
who is a priest. The objections all come from members of the older generation
who are depicted as tropes – irrational and stuck in their ways. The television show suggests it is old-fashioned and not really acceptable to oppose interfaith marriage. Meredith Baxter and David Birney starred in the one-season series ‘Bridget Loves Bernie.’ eBay via Wikimedia Commons. “Bridget Loves Bernie” received vociferous protests and was canceled at the end of the first season. Many Jewish viewers objected to the suggestion that interfaith marriage was acceptable and even hip. The show was likely particularly unnerving to the Jewish community because the interfaith marriage rate was rising at unprecedented rates in the 1970s
creating fear in the community that Jewish assimilation to wider American culture would prove too successful. The worry was that interfaith couples would not raise their children as Jewish
shrinking the Jewish community into nonexistence. In addition
Judaism has traditionally considered a child Jewish only if the mother is also Jewish – though that has changed in liberal movements. As I write in my book
one critic
writing to The New York Times
suggested that a situation comedy about interfaith marriage was as tasteless as one about “the merry adventures of a Jewish family on their way to the gas chambers.” While CBS denied that the show was canceled because of the protests
it remains the highest-rated show to be canceled by network television. The theme of Jewish interfaith marriage as American
and opposition to interfaith marriage being outmoded
echoes through films
as well – most notably
the original “Heartbreak Kid” and “Annie Hall.” Though no one ever mentions religion in the decade-long show “Mad About You
” it too features a Jewish man married to a non-Jewish woman – and much of its humor stems from their cultural differences. New series
same stereotype. Both notions are also present to some degree in “Nobody Want This” – which includes another
uglier theme from the interfaith marriage archives
as well.
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