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I was a nice guy. I was interesting. I was ready but I couldn’t get people to like me.

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I was going about it all the wrong way. I put all of my energy in trying to persuade other kids that I was interesting. But when I realised that trying to get others to be interested in me wasn’t working I changed the way I acted. Being interested in others was my key to unlocking the door to making friends . On the back of this
I started to connect with people a lot faster. I made more quality friends in a few weeks than I had done in all my previous school years out together Here is my guide to the 7 proven ways to make friends quickly in high school & below the Free poster on an additional 4 ways that can also help
7. Smile and the whole world smiles with you. It seems like such a simple thing to do but a smile can start a lot of friendships. If you are in a place where you are not making friends
no matter how hard you try
then it is difficult to walk around with a smile on your face. However
not smiling can make you even more of an outsider. Now I’m not talking about walking around with a grin on your face all day because people will think you’re just weird. But I’m talking about lightening up and putting positive energy out there. Laugh at your classmate’s jokes (if they aren't funny
jokes) and smile at people when you walk by. If your exterior cracks and you let people in a little then you have a much better chance of making friends. Psychology today stated that the fastest way to make a friend is to have “a nice countenance about your face” This means having a nice warm face when you meet someone for the first time. 6. Names matter. I am great at remembering names. I have worked out a little story in my head that helps me pluck someone’s name out of that dark corner of my mind where I stored it. My friend at high school could not remember names. He was a smart guy and he could remember the details of the faces of all the people he hung around with. He could recall that time when we all went out to the mall together and chatted with girls and even quoted movies for paragraphs on end - But he can’t remember a name. He lost a lot of friends over the years because he would call people "bro"
“you” or “ted" which was fine
unless your name was Jonny. A name is really important to someone – it forms a vital part of their identity. Find a way to remember people’s names if you want to make friends fast. 5. Listen to others. Everybody wants to be heard. It can be easy to think that the best way to make friends is to show off how cool you are. This involves talking to others about you
doesn’t it? Well
no – it actually doesn’t. It involves being part of a group and a large part of that is listening to others. This is all a part of becoming more mature. When you were a three-year-old you could just walk into a the room and start talking and everyone would instantly listen to you. But you don’t have that power any more. If you walk into room of your peers and start to tell them how great you are then they are guaranteed to switch off. Have you ever had a friend who talks way too much about themselves? its annoying isn't it? Well
don't be like that! Asking questions is one of the fastest ways to get to know people and make them feel heard. Some typical questions may be: "What did you get up to in the weekend"?"Do you play any sports?""What sort of video games do you play?"Asking questions takes the pressure off you and onto the other person to talk. It also allows you to quickly find out what people are interested in and allow you to find out if you have any similarities which can be a big part of friendships. 4. Take what you have listened to and talk about it. Although it goes a long way
listening and taking it all in does not win you friends on its own. You will need to participate in conversations yourself at times. We all know someone who rarely talks. It might be someone in your family
someone you know from school or someone in your community. They might sit and listen all day to what is going on but they don’t participate. And it can be kind of hard to understand what they are thinking and involve this person in your conversation. Well
you don’t want to become that person. Listening is great. It gives you access to all the interests of others (and this really helps you to make friends) but the others in the conversation want to know if you have the same interests. Once you have listened and you understand what is going on then join in – but remember that nobody likes a show-off. 3. Make others feel important. We all want to feel as though we are the most important person in the room. It is a natural thing that happens to each of us. There is nothing wrong in feeling like that.













how do you make friends easily


how to make new friends easily