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Does uncovering the vulnerable, clumsy sides of sex make you better at it? These "social sex" companies think so. Senior Editor / Reviews - Phones. Lynn La covers mobile reviews and news. She previously wrote for The Sacramento Bee, Macworld and The Global Post. Editors' note: This story is part of our Turned On special report exploring the intersection of sex and technology. It contains sexually explicit descriptions and may not be suited for younger readers. In the sunny living room of a Mediterranean-style house in Oakland, California, Rosalind sips coffee through a straw. The 24-year-old research assistant wears a thin green utility jacket and has large brown eyes and dark wavy hair with pin-up-girl bangs. Sitting on a couch as SLR cameras record her, she gets ready to tell nine people, none of whom she's met in real life before, about the first time she masturbated. "I can't believe I told you guys about the shower masturbation," says Rosalind (not her real name). "That's literally the first time I have ever said that out loud." A few crew members chuckle. They're filming for OMGYes, a site that hosts a series of online videos about how to sexually satisfy a woman. OMGYes is one of a number of companies ushering sex education for the 18 and older crowd into a new era. Serving a space somewhere between the staid, impassive lectures many sat through as students and a pornography industry that values entertainment above all else, these companies use interactive and user-generated digital media to explore the more emotional, intimate and vulnerable sides of sex. "The internet has offered, along with a lot of really disturbing images and ideas, a lot of potential for positive education," says Peggy Orenstein, author of "Girls &amp, Sex" and "Cinderella Ate my Daughter," which examines how modern culture sexualizes young girls. Sites like OMGYes, Orenstein says, "have the opportunity to do an end-run around traditional sources of education -- and miseducation." On the set of OMGYes. The company is in the process of producing its second season. Can't keep my hands to myself. Launched in 2015 by U.C. Berkeley graduates Lydia Daniller and Rob Perkins, OMGYes is a startup dedicated to "the science of women's pleasure." Its videos feature one-on-one interviews with women like Rosalind who share their sexual history and favorite techniques. Other videos are interactive. Viewers can, for example, use their fingers to rub and tap digital renderings of female genitalia on a touchscreen. These images are created from thousands of composited, high-definition photographs stitched together from some of OMGYes' interviewees, who range in race, age and body type. As you touch, a voice-over softly guides you where to touch and how fast. The lessons end when the screen fades to white. If you do everything "right," the voice lets out a satisfying sigh. If not, she suggests you stop and take a break. Online videos have attempted to educate about sex before. In addition to the YouTube channels Sexplanations and Hannah Witton, there's Laci Green. The 27-year-old YouTube personality has talked about sex and dating since 2008, and has over 1.5 million subscribers. But while videos by Green and others simply require passive watching, OMGYes infuses its tutorials with a level of visceral interactivity and immediacy that video blogs, books and magazines can't offer. Women talk frankly to the camera for OMGYes. Though the tutorials can be titillating, OMGYes is serious about the facts and techniques it presents. In partnership with Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute , it gathered feedback from more than 2,000 women, ages 18-95. With this information, OMGYes offers a platform for women to talk about a subject that at worst is seen as taboo, and at best, unimportant. "Why aren't we talking about pleasure? Like actual pleasure," says Sybil Lockhart, lead researcher at OMGYes. "When we went to look up what the research was on pleasure, we found that there really wasn't any. What gets funded generally is pathology. It's anorgasmia or dryness or soreness." Click for more Turned On. The first season of OMGYes is currently available for a $40 flat fee (about ВЈ30 or AU$50), and includes lessons about delaying and intensifying orgasms, stimulating the clitoris and communicating in the bedroom. For its 200,000 current users, OMGYes wants its upcoming second season, which doesn't yet have a release date, to cover internal vaginal touch. It brought in Rosalind to talk about experiences including female ejaculation. After Rosalind wraps up her onscreen interview, the team breaks for a late lunch of Chinese takeout. Later, Rosalind will shoot her touch-and-talk scene, where she'll masturbate on camera and narrate what works. At the end of all this, she'll fly back home to DC and return to her job at a university. She hopes her contributions to the project will help form a more sensible, but still joyful, narrative around sex. "Having more resources like this gives [people] a positive interaction with the actual ins-and-outs of human sexuality, rather than the facade we see in pornography," Rosalind says. "Fantasies are great, but demonstrate them in a way that are actually attainable." Let's make a movie. The "facade of pornography," and its entertaining but often unrealistic depictions of sex, motivated Cindy Gallop to find Make Love Not Porn (MLNP) in 2012. A former publicist and marketer who now heads her own consultant firm, Gallop is everything you'd expect an ad exec to be -- fast-talking, blunt and charismatic. She created the site after discovering many of the men she slept with made false assumptions about what she wanted in bed. "Porn, by default, becomes sex education, and not in a good way," Gallop says. "But the issue is not porn. The issue is that we don't talk about sex in the real world." The combination of free streaming online pornography and society's reluctance to talk openly about sex, Gallop says, results in people taking their sexual behavioral cues from pornography. Cindy Gallop at Lincoln Center in New York City, 2013. Monica Schipper/Getty Images. To counter this, MLNP encourages users to upload and share videos of themselves having sex or masturbating. Subscribers can rent videos for $5 (about ВЈ4 or AU$6, converted) and stream them for three weeks. MLNP has two requirements for submissions: all those involved must consent to the whole process (the recording, the submission and most importantly, the sex itself) and participants must be having the sex they'd have in real life. One video shows a woman getting into a coughing fit while her partner rubs her back and offers a tissue. Another features an orange tabby cat jumping on the bed, indifferently watching its owners have sex and walking to the foot of the bed to lie down. There is small talk. There is silence. There are women with body hair. There are naked men wearing socks. MLNP doesn't consider its videos to be pornography or even amateur, and to label them as either would be a bit reductive. These videos don't feature professional actors contractually paid to have sex. The stars are everyday people experiencing genuine sexual connections. "It's not performing for the camera," says Sarah Beall, MLNP's curator and community manager. "What we're doing is creating a space to show that real-world sex comes in all different varieties and it isn't less valuable, pleasurable or worthwhile." Other services have goals similar to MLNP. The YouTube channel Fck Yes, for example, shows how people can seek and receive sexual consent. There are only four complete episodes so far, and while the videos use explicit language, they're relatively safe for work and don't depict actual sex. MLNP videos include actual sex, and that they are crowdsourced and shareable online is key to MLNP's overall mission. Anyone with the moxie to whip out a phone and record themselves can spontaneously upload a video and share it with MLNP's 400,000 subscribers. In the five years since the site launched, 200 users have submitted 1,500 videos. The company likens users uploading their sexual adventures to MLNP to social media users posting their latest meal on Instagram or vacation photos on Facebook. "We're building a whole new category on the internet called 'social sex,'" Gallop says. "Our competition isn't porn. It's Facebook and YouTube.













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