Young women into older men

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Do your friends or family comment on the fact you always seem to date men from an older age group and constantly ask you why you never date anyone your own age? You might be asking yourself these same questions now you’ve noticed the pattern in your behavior. We can’t help who we find attractive
but understanding why you’re attracted to men of a certain age might also help you better understand yourself.

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There’s a lot of negative assumptions around the idea of people dating outside their age groups. Younger women who date older men are called ‘Gold Diggers
’ with people assuming that they are only with an older man for his money. Older men dating younger women are labeled as ‘Cradle Snatchers’ or seen as lotharios because they aren’t settling with someone more mature and closer to their own age. There’s nothing wrong with being in a relationship with a person who isn’t the same age as you. People should be allowed to date and love whoever makes them happy
regardless of what society expects from us. You can’t always explain why you love who you love
and you shouldn’t feel that you have to. But if you’re still curious about why you gravitate towards older men the way that you do
keep reading to see if any of the below sounds familiar. Speak to an accredited and experienced therapist to help you figure out where your attraction to older men comes from and if it’s healthy. You may want to try speaking to one via BetterHelp.com for quality care at its most convenient. 1. You crave a stability you never had. Older men can often symbolize the ideal of a stable lifestyle. Whether it’s the fact that an older man is more likely to be settled in his career and have his finances in a comfortable place
or that he emanates a father-like sense of protection and certainty
he gives the aurora of someone who has his life together. If you didn’t have a stable or loving childhood
or have struggled with your finances or career to get to the point you are now
finding a partner who can offer you that sense of certainty and stability would be incredibly attractive to you. Compared to younger men who are still figuring out what they want from life
an older man who knows what he wants and has set himself up in life might look like the safer and more appealing option in terms of a serious relationship. His job
his home
and his lifestyle are all secure
and by being with him
you’d no longer have the fear that everything could fall apart in a second. You know where you stand with him and there’s comfort in the knowledge that you’d have a stable lifestyle. There may be less room for spontaneity or change
but maybe you’ve had enough of that in your life already and what you look for most in a partner is someone you can count on to be utterly reliable and steadfast. As a younger woman
there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone who can offer you a peaceful life. You may know exactly how the rest of your life will map out with him
each day much like the next
but for you
that could be exactly what you’ve been missing. 2. You’ve got ‘daddy issues.’ When we talk about daddy issues
this doesn’t have to mean that you’ve had a life-altering
damaging relationship with your father. In fact
‘issues’ might be the wrong way to describe the situation that applies to you. But your attraction to older men could still have something to do with your interactions
or lack of
with the father figure in your life so far. Some women may have always craved affection from their father
either not having one around at all
or never feeling as if they were good enough for their father’s attention. Their feelings around their father’s disinterest or absence from their life have manifested into a preference for older men when it comes to finding a romantic partner. They may be looking for someone who can step into that father figure role they’ve been missing. For others
it could be the complete opposite. They may have had such a close relationship with their father and looked up to them growing up
that their father became an idealized version of the man they would eventually want to be with in a relationship. This close relationship with their father has meant that they now find themselves looking for older men as potential life partners who more easily fit into that protective and authoritative role. Having daddy issues just means that your perception of the father figure role in your life has somehow impacted what you look for in a man and changed your perspective on relationships. You’re looking for a partner who can step into that role as a protector that provides unconditional love
someone with whom you feel safe and taken care of. If you feel as though your relationship with your father has heavily influenced your choice of partner
you may want to consider speaking to a therapist about how and why you think that is. It’s ok to have a relationship with men in a different age group
but you want to make sure it’s for the right reasons and that you aren’t just trying to fill an emotional hole in your heart that you’ve yet to properly address. 3. You’ve had bad dating experiences in the past. If you haven’t had much luck dating men your own age
these experiences might be altering how you approach your current love life. One bad guy doesn’t mean that all men will be the same
but one bad relationship or dating experience can be hard to forget. If you feel as though you’ve had no luck in the type of men you’ve been going for so far
you might try the tactic of dating someone completely different to anyone you’ve been with previously.