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I&#8217
ve been writing columns on mid-life dating for 15-plus years and I still can&#8217
t give women a satisfactory answer to that question
because
there isn&#8217
t one. This week
Cheryl
who lives in Hawthorne [&hellip
]";"Where to meet quality single men. “Where should I go to meet quality men my age?” is the most frequently asked question I receive from mature single women.



I’ve been writing columns on mid-life dating for 15-plus years and I still can’t give women a satisfactory answer to that question
because
there isn’t one. This week
Cheryl
who lives in Hawthorne and works in Torrance
e-mailed: “I’m widowed
attractive and easy to get along with
and have a modicum of intelligence to boot! “Can you provide me with some venues to meet nice
respectful men in my age group? I’ll be 62 in a couple of weeks. I look really good. I work full-time. I’m still raring to go. I’m just not sure WHERE to go. I don’t do internet dating.” I answered Cheryl—at the risk of discouraging her-by writing that there is no place in the Los Angeles area or Orange County
in fact
anywhere across the USA
to my knowledge–where older single men congregate for the purpose of meeting quality women near their age. Places like that simply don’t exist. There are clubs and bars—maybe a few haunts around Newport Beach
for example–where those older guys go hoping to meet young honeys
but women like Cheryl wisely stay away
not wanting to compete with younger babes in a meat-market atmosphere. Women get irked at me and suggest I’m not worth my weight as a columnist since I can’t come up with specific places where single men hang out. My book
“Finding Love After 50: How to Begin. Where to Go. What to Do
” offers this advice to singles on where to go: “People need to get off the couch
away from the computer screen
out of the house
and pursue activities and hobbies that interest them. Meeting new people is vital. “Singles should go out to spice up and revitalize their lives
grow
have fun and experience new things. While doing that
they might meet a mate
they might not
but in doing so
they’ve improved their chances greatly.” I also tell singles that it’s important
however
not to go out for the sole purpose of trying to meet a mate. When singles do that
they come off as looking too hard—even desperate—and other singles sense that and will avoid them altogether. We hear about the importance of attitude so much that it’s almost a hackneyed thought
but I cannot stress enough how important it is for singles to have a positive
non-judgmental attitude when they are out and about. When singles are negative
potential partners they meet relegate them to the dating slush pile. In my book
I suggest reunions and weddings as must places for singles to go. Joining clubs and doing volunteer work are worthwhile activities
as are going back to school and travel. Nancy
Dana Point
said
“I have no problem meeting men. They are everywhere. You just have to be friendly and approachable. Walking in Dana Point Harbor is a great place to meet people.” By not using the Internet
Cheryl has excluded herself from one of the most prolific ways older women meet older men. In spite of the negatives that accompany Internet dating
there are endless success stories of how older singles met mates on the Internet. It should be at least a small part of Cheryl’s mix of activities. So where should Cheryl and single women in general go to meet men? Anywhere and everywhere
it’s the getting out with new people that’s important.













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