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From singles events to speed dating to reading parties
here's how to find your boo. Photograph: By Sai Karri / Courtesy of Intellectual Blonde Events | A silent disco mixer. Ah
the meetcute.


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That charming chance encounter between people that leads to romance. Think Amanda and Graham in “The Holiday” who met by happenstance when the latter needed a bathroom. Or Bea and Ben’s cafe concurrence in “Anyone But You” which also
incidentally
involved a bathroom. Or Alex Claremont-Diaz and Prince Henry’s series of snarky showdowns until their iconic cake scene in “Red White and Royal Blue.” Sadly
we can't all be quite as lucky in love as these cinema couples. For New Yorkers looking for a relationship
Cupid has his work cut out for him. But dating experts across the city say the path to true love isn't necessarily paved with a string of Hinge or Tinder or Grindr matches. Instead
they encourage singles to try the old-fashioned way: Meeting people in (gasp) real life
something we can have in common with those meetcute couples. As a dating/relationship expert and the founder of Intellectual Blonde Events
Amber Soletti knows the power of an in-person encounter. She hosts dating events from silent discos to singles mixers across the city—and she even met her now-husband at one of her events more than a decade ago. She's not the only one
she can share story after story of people who met at her events and became more than friends. However
that doesn't mean you'll find "the one" right away. She attended singles events for five years before finding her person. "The events work
but love really is a numbers game
she tells Time Out New York . You can't go to a few events
not meet anyone you like and say that you are done with singles events
they don't work. When you get frustrated
or the prospect of meeting someone seems overwhelming
you just need to remember that different singles come out to each event and that all it takes is one." Photograph: Courtesy of Amber Soletti | Amber and her husband Juan. Even if you don’t find your “forever date
” she says
you may find a great friend
or a lead on an apartment
or a work connection. Her tips: Keep an open mind
don’t pressure on yourself
and be open to the possibilities. If you want to see for yourself
Intellectual Blonde Events is coming through in February with a variety of activities. There's a "Rescue Me" event for women looking for eligible first responders
V-Day Speed Dating for gay men 25+
a "Stupid Cupid
speed dating/singles mixer for singles 30+, and lots more. Here's how to register. Another singles event to bookmark in February is We Finna Flirt: Speed Dating and Kickback Night for QTPOC" organized by I'm Finna Talk and Raw Honey
two collectives that center queer and trans people of color. Soletti swears by singles events because it’s a lot easier to ascertain someone’s interest level there. While it’s easy to meet someone in NYC—at a park or on the subway for example—it can be hard to find someone who’s looking for a long-term relationship. Love Daddy Trev (that's Trevor Kuhn
officially) knows that all too well. "When it comes to dating in New York
it's hard because you don't know who's in the same mindset as you are
he says. Photograph: By Adam Houston Photography / Courtesy of Love Daddy Trev. That's where his coaching comes in. As the self-described Love Coach for Men, he's a certified relationship and confidence coach, a.k.a. the one encouraging gay men to shoot their shot. When he's working with a client, Kuhn likes to ask them one important question: When was the last time you asked somebody out? A lot of times
I'll hear someone say
'I haven't been asked out in years.' I'm like
'Have you asked anyone out?' This is like asking to win the lottery. Have you bought a ticket?" he says. "You better play the game." I'll hear someone say
'I haven't been asked out in years.' I'm like
'Have you asked anyone out?' This is like asking to win the lottery. Have you bought a ticket? While he recommends several dance parties and clubs
such as UltraMaroon
Battle Hymn
and Three Dollar Bill
he also suggests other social outlets based on your interests
whether that's gaming or kickball or anything else. "You can't stay in the same circle and expect to meet new people is really the bottom line
he says. Speaking of shared interests, a new event around town has unintentionally become an excellent spot for meeting singles. Reading Rhythms dubs itself as Not a book club. A reading party." Four friends—Ben Bradbury
Tom Worcester
Charlotte Jackson
and John Lifrieri—founded the event as simply a way to read more. What started with 10 friends on an apartment rooftop has ballooned into a mega-popular event series that regularly sells out. Photograph: Courtesy of Reading Rhythms. The concept is simple: Bookworms bring a book and read silently together while listening to ambient live music. Then
they talk about their books in small groups with helpful discussion prompts. Turns out
that's a recipe for connection—and sometimes a love connection. One of the founders even met his girlfriend there. "The environment provided a sense of continuity that they felt consistently able to talk about their real self
not the projected self
not the social media self
but the real self
Worcester says.













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