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Felt a special kinship to it because it’s";"Singles. How to Plan Activities for Singles over 30 (So They’ll Come and Won’t Resent You) I don’t like day old-zucchini bread
but I bought some anyway. Felt a special kinship to it because it’s cheap
stale and never has any dates.

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Question of the day- is it possible to plan activities for singles over 30 that they will actually enjoy
attend
and not roll their eyes at the mere suggestion of? Answer- sometimes
but not usually. It is not easy to plan activities for singles over 30. Even more so
it is hard to plan activities that they will actually enjoy and want to attend. Why? Because one size does not fit all. The larger the age span amongst the singles
the harder it is to include and entertain everyone. Add in all of the demographics and you’ll find it is impossible to please the masses. Some of the demographics include. • Divorced? Never married? Widowed? Still bitter over the divorce? • Do they have children at home? With their former spouse? In another state? Are they toddlers or high schoolers? Are they grandparents? • Careers? Doctors? Bus drivers? School teachers? Military? Long hours? Work from home? • Distance to the chapel? Distance to other singles? • Financially stable? Struggling economically? In graduate school? • Shy? Outgoing? Attractive? Overweight? Gym rat? Socially conservative? Socially awkward? There are a lot of things to take into consideration when planning activities. Let’s get one thing straight- no one idea will appeal to all groups. Trust me
I’ve tried. It just won’t happen. Here are a few key things to keep in mind when planning activities. First and foremost- do not treat 40 year olds the same way that you would also treat 14 year olds. There is a very bad habit amongst Singles Representatives (whether they are married or single representatives) to forget that they are planning and working with singles
and they tend to treat the singles like they are still immature teenagers. Keep this in mind as well when deciding whether or not chaperones are necessary or just silly. In my personal opinion
this is the biggest mistake most planners make. Singles over 30 are not the same as teenagers who are learning to socialize in mixed groups. Singles over 30 are very aware of the opposite sex and do not need chaperones to encourage such behavior. If the singles want to talk
they will talk. If they aren’t talking
it is because they don’t want to! Remember the old adage
“You can lead a horse to water
but you can’t make him drink.” I’d like to add on one more line to that when you are working with singles
“But you can remind him he’s thirsty!” You can plan all the activities you want
but you can’t make the opposite sexes speak to each other if they don’t want to. But you just might succeed in reminding them that they want to look more at the opposite sex. Second
you can please some of the people some of the time
but you’ll never please all of the people all of the time. So don’t try to please all age groups and all demographics of single adults at the same time. Plan some activities to cater to your older attendees
and plan some to cater to your younger attendees. And maybe (depending on the reactions of your locals) considering advertising it as such
to encourage the right target audience to attend. Third
do not plan activities for 40 year olds that you would also plan for 14 year olds. Is there anything you enjoy doing in middle-age that you also enjoyed in your early teen years? Probably not. Keep that in mind as you try to plan activities. Next
less structured activities are best! This brings me to my first personal example.













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