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14 Tips for Dating After Divorce. And what to do differently if you’re coming back into the scene later in life. When it comes to the most stressful life events, researchers rank divorce as number two, right after the death of a spouse or child and before being imprisoned or having a health crisis—and for good reason.

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It goes without saying that ending a marriage can make you rethink everything you thought you knew about love—and sometimes, even, yourself. But, it shouldn’t prevent you from finding happiness with a new person. In fact, experts say that getting divorced in your 40s, or 50s, can actually improve the quality of your future relationships. “I see one divorce as a good credential, actually,” says Fran Walfish, Ph.D., a relationship psychotherapist and consulting psychologist on The Doctors. “There shouldn’t be any shame in this. It can help you figure out what you really want in your next partner. Ready to meet people? Before you start dating, here are some ground rules for finding a match worthy of you in the Tinder era. Know that chemistry doesn't always mean a long-term connection. "Lust is nature’s way of tricking us into attachment, so be very judicious about who you keep in your dating pool and who you 'throw back' to the pond," says Bela Gandhi, founder of Chicago-based matchmaking service Smart Dating Academy. When returning to dating after a longtime monogamous relationship (particularly one that ended badly), craving the excitement of a spark-filled romance is understandable. But Gandhi says you shouldn't discount a "slow burn." "Especially when we are dating after divorce, singles think immediate, blazing chemistry is the key thing to look for," she continues. "Not true. Chemistry, especially for women, can grow over time—and may take many dates to begin to grow!" Gandhi points to her own simmer-to-boil relationship with her husband, who she was friends with for six years before they began dating. Make sure you're actually over your ex and ready to date. The ink may be dry on your divorce papers, but that doesn’t mean you’ve completely moved on. Of course, that's understandable, but if you can’t stop talking or thinking about your ex—whether you’re praising them or hating them—you may need some more time to process your feelings before getting back into the dating scene, says Nikki Martinez , Psy.D., a licensed professional counselor. This content is imported from poll.













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